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Just thinking about all the "ordeal" related to meet, befriend, approach and date makes me give up before even beginning. How each step has tens of thousands of approaches to go completely wrong and lead from simple rejection to downright humiliation.
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But algorithmic-matching sites exclude all such information from the algorithm because the only information those sites collect relies on those who have never encountered their prospective partners (making it impossible to know how two possible partners interact) and who provide very little information related for their future life stresses (employment stability, drug abuse history, and such ).
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One day, a man's face popped up on my display. He was handsome, but that wasn't exactly what made me swipe right. I had learned to value what people wrote more than how they looked. He described himself as happy, funny and fully evolved (or nearly), and I laughed in the sly acknowledgment that as 40-somethings we're better than we were, but still far from ideal. He texted right off and was funny, as advertised, in addition to honest and self-aware. He was a labour lawyer, recently separated, and said he was looking for a real relationship.
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"Generally I'm the active party with women and the receptive party with men. I always have to send the first message with women, make the conversation, think of College Slutes interesting things to say, be the entertaining one. It's a lot of work. "
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